So it’s chinese new year huh? Enjoy! 14. Spend time with those you love. Despite what you might believe and cling to (when you sit in the dark, crying softly to yourself), you might not have “all the time in the world.” Rather than working that extra hour of overtime, or missing a birthday party, […]

12. You could die tomorrow. You could live to one hundred. Live your life accordingly. Explanation: Don’t be too careless. Don’t be to careful. Living: Take time to smell the roses, but don’t dilly dally. Importance: Wasting your life is a very bad thing. 13. It is easy for the careless to get caught in […]

The continuing explanation of my philosophy for living… 10. Respect every person as a human being. Respect peers as kindred spirits. Respect friends as soul mates. Most importantly, respect yourself as someone worthwhile. Explanation: Although many people will argue with me on this point, I do not respect every equally. There are three basic degrees […]

brrr.. issh cold outside… The continuing explanation of my philosophy for living… edited because wellwisher reminded me of the other kind of regret 8. Live without regret. Explanation: Regret is a great source of stress in life. Don’t put yourself into a position where you will regret what you have done. If you do do […]

6. Lie only when you must protect what is important. Choose your lies carefully. Explanation: Some people would say that you should never lie. I believe taht is an unrealistic philosophy. Living: Know what you’re doing when you lie. Consider the ramifications should the lie be disclosed. Weigh the reward against the punishment. Importance: Some […]

Bun and Bear [Picture Removed] 4. Try to be patient, but don’t hold back. Explanation: Haha, I forget what I meant with this lesson. Living: Eat more fish to improve your memory. Importance: I shouldn’t forget stuff like this. 5. You cannot please everyone and you shouldn’t try. Explanation: People are like snowflakes or thumbprints. […]

Yankang’s Bday Video Introduction 3.25 Min [Low Res WMV8, Low Audio 22MHz] (5.32MB) Stay tuned for the rest of the video (as I finish the final editing and encoding). You must have Windows Media Player 8 to view this video. You can get the larger, better-quality version from me through AIM by selecting Get File […]

2. Temper lust with love. Explanation: There’s nothing wrong with lust. It is a human emotion. Just like with other emotions, you must not let lust solely control your actions. Do not base relationships on lust. Do not dismiss lust as an unnecessary emotion. The whole spectrum of feeling is necessary to be a complete […]

happy birthday yang! stay tuned guys for his birthday video. I’m trying to upload it somewhere for you guys to download. i miss u bear! For those of you who enjoyed my New Year’s Eve entry and the life lessons, I will explain the meaning behind the lessons, how to incorporate them into your lives, […]

Happy New Year, from your friend Serpentor! [Picture Removed] CO-BRA-LA-LA-LA! Haha, okay sike, it’s still your old pal ??????????!! What are your plans for the new year? Will you sit at home playing games or watching tv (as I did for many many years), will you laugh and hug your closest friends, or will you […]

an excerpt from a previous entry of mine: The importance of balance [in a relationship] is shown in the following example. A couple has been married for ten years. The husband is generally a loving man, except that when he drinks he turns into a totally different person. He becomes verbally and physically abusive. The […]