Life is a constant game of chance. The intelligent realize this, and also realize that to get the most reward the fastest, one must risk the most he can. Next time that girl walks by and gives you a wink, dont dismiss it as an allergic reaction. If someone you hardly know asks you to get a cup of coffee, whats the worse that can happen? Is that even likely? Now what`s the best that can happen? Is that not more likely? Take the time to enjoy life.