This month, I started a new job that will hopefully be better for our future than the previous. Firstly, I will get to be home more than I have been in the past few months–I’ve been in NYC a lot. Secondly, I’ll make more money. The job is going well so far, and I can only hope that it keeps on the same track. Meanwhile, Lisa and I have picked our wedding favors, taken studio pictures, and chosen a wedding photographer. We’re making great progress with the planning and I’m confident that everything will be ready on time.

Our decision making process is as follows. She asks me what I think, and I tell her that I’m happy with whatever she decides (sometimes I do give more insightful comments). I try to defer to her decisions because we are sometimes at odds about my decision making process. I like to make snap decisions because I don’t like to dwell on an issue once I have enough information to decide upon an option. Still, I appreciate being able to make decisions with her, and the chance that we have to start a new life together.